I have been trying to find out more about Therese's best friend in the orphanage, hoping to advocate for her and help her find a family, since I was told when I was in Lanzhou that she was listed for adoption. I was very sad to hear today that the orphanage recently decided she is not healthy enough to be adopted and at this time they have withdrawn her paperwork. Therese talked about her constantly, with such love. My heart is heavy for this little girl who is not only an orphan, but may not have a chance to ever know the love of a family. This is one of the reasons that adoption breaks my heart. You can bring home a child, who is a loved and joyful part of your family, but you can never forget the ones left behind.